Fun But Were Married

Co-authored by long-married (54 years) Columbia University professors of psychology, Fun? But We’re Married is about what it takes to sustain a healthy and happy marriage.

Emphasizing the value of having fun together, Lois and Joel Davitz also suggest that: more communication is not always better; you can be just too sensitive; your marriage can survive a few good fights — if you know the rules; getting out of sync is not necessarily fatal.

Drawing on their own experience of over 50 years of life together and many years of professional research into why marriages last or disintegrate, the Davitzes provide a wise and witty guide — for those about to marry — married couples experiencing stumbling blocks — and couples who’ll enjoy looking back with the perspective of years and a touch of laughter.